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Are you an expat educator going through a divorce, trying to keep it together while your world falls apart?

You're terrified of losing not just your marriage, but also your job, visa, child, and the life you built in this country
You're fighting multiple battles with your ex, family, children, at work and within yourself
You're exhausted from performing in front of everyone, all while falling apart inside
You're navigating such a mess that you feel scattered
You've tried the gratitude journals, the motivational videos, the counselling - none of it seems to work

The more you try to be strong, the worse you feel

You are an expat teacher in the middle of a life-draining divorce. You wake at 5.30am after another sleepless night, your mind already heavy with court dates, lawyer emails, finances, what your child said last night, whether your Year Head noticed you zoning out. By the time you reach the bathroom mirror, you are crying silently. But you are a responsible teacher. So you put on your best outfit, fix your face, paste on a smile and walk out the door. "Fake it till you make it," they say.

You can't confide in anyone

Now, you walk into class everyday with the fear that your broken self will be exposed. You can't tell your friends, because the circle is tight-knit and you don't want to make them uncomfortable. You're afraid that if you let school management know, they'll see you as incompetent and ultimately lose your job. So nobody knows about the sleepless nights, or that you snuck into the bathroom during recess to cry.

Your world is falling apart

On top of everything, you are still managing everyone else. A toxic ex making the process difficult. A child you are desperately trying to protect. Family and friends whose well-meaning advice adds more weight than relief. Students whose learning should not suffer because of your divorce. You are fighting every one of these battles alone, in a country where the home you built is threatening to collapse around you.

62% of teachers who had undergone a "critical life incident" like divorce experienced decreased performance in the classroom, with some even losing their jobs due to this.

I help divorcing expat teachers like you. Book a free chat with me to find out how you can be the 38% like my clients.