Helping divorcing expat educators keep their sanity, jobs and residency, so they can move forward without losing everything.
Helping divorcing expat educators keep their sanity, jobs and residency, so they can move forward without losing everything.
You do not need someone to tell you that divorce is hard. What you need is someone who understands what it feels like to be going through it - as a teacher and as an expat. There are unique fears of wondering whether you will lose your job, your visa, your child's stability, and the life you have spent years carefully building. Someone who does not flinch at the weight of what you are carrying.
"I walk into the classroom everyday preaching good behaviour and making wise decisions. Yet my own life is in a mess. I don't even believe myself anymore."
- CLIENT
Why what you are doing isn't working
Support groups turn out to be full of people complaining, not actually supportive
Counselling feels like it's just "circling around emotions" without providing concrete direction or tools to move forward
Self-help resources are helpful, but only for the moment before heavy feelings set in again.
Suppressing emotions and "being strong" actually makes things worse - leads to depression, poor performance, and potential job loss
What you can expect from working with me
By the time we work together, you will notice real differences in how you get through your days:
You make decisions from a place of calm and clarity, not scattered chaos
You know how to show up in your classroom at your best, even when your personal life is falling apart
You know exactly who you are beyond the marriage and beyond the title "Mrs X"
You are the calm, present parent your child needs right now
You have a clear picture of what your next chapter looks like - and you actually know what to do with it
The messy thoughts that kept you up at night no longer have the same grip on you
You stop feeling like you are holding everything together with thin thread and start feeling like yourself again
I've been where you are - I was a provider of education programs, went through divorce 15 years ago and lost my job because I didn't know how to navigate it. I learned the hard way, so you don't have to. Most importantly: You don't have to do this alone, and I'm here to help you through it.
8 x 1-hr coaching
Includes 4 x Symbolic Coaching sessions*
Meditation**
WhatsApp support between sessions
6 x 1-hr coaching
Includes 2 x Symbolic Coaching sessions*
WhatsApp support between sessions
$1,480 (or $370 x 4 months)
8 x 1-hour coaching sessions (including 4 x Symbolic Coaching sessions), meditation, WhatsApp support between sessions
This is for you if you are ready to do the real work - not just get through the week, but actually rebuild.
8 sessions over 4 months means we have enough time to get past the immediate crisis and into the bigger picture. We deal with the anxiety, the sleepless nights, the feeling that you are held together with a thin thread.
Once you can breathe again, we look ahead. Who are you now? What do you actually want your life to look like? What kind of mother, teacher and woman do you want to be on the other side of this?
4 of your sessions are Symbolic Coaching sessions. Sometimes when you are going through something this overwhelming, you run out of words. Symbolic Coaching uses Tarot and drawing exercises as a different way to understand the chaos inside you. The Tarot cards act as a prompt, a mirror, a starting point for a deeper conversation. The drawing exercises give your feelings somewhere to go when words fail.
Every session opens with a short meditation to help you gather your thoughts, arrive focused, and breathe. You will also learn techniques to carry into your daily life, so that the calm you find in our sessions does not disappear the moment we switch off Zoom.
Between sessions, you have WhatsApp access to me. When your lawyer sends an update that sends your anxiety through the roof, or your ex says something that throws you completely, or you have a moment at school where you nearly lose it - you do not have to hold that alone until our next session. You can reach out, and I will respond ASAP within reasonable boundaries, or we will note it for our next conversation.
By the time we finish, you will have more than just coping strategies. You will have a clear sense of who you are, what you want, and what your next chapter actually looks like.