You are an educator, teacher or someone who serves as a role model to young people.
You are going through challenges in your personal life - such as a divorce.
You start to question if you can continue being a good educator - both to your students and your own children.
You lie awake at night, your head pounding and swirling at the thought of your world falling apart.
You know things have gone south and what you should be letting go of, but you are also terrified at the thought of leading your life alone.
"How did it come to this?" "What did I do wrong?" "Am I doing the right thing?" - these questions creep up incessantly the moment you are not paying attention, and you have no answers to them.
"I walk into the classroom everyday preaching good behaviour and making wise decisions. Yet my own life is in a mess. I don't even believe myself anymore."
What went wrong?
Relationships are complex and we can go on forever trying to pinpoint the 'mistake'. The first thing you need to know is - it is not your fault. However, we can all learn to make better choices, starting from now.
According to the Singapore Department of Statistics, there are over 7000 divorces every year. You are not alone, you are not abnormal and you are definitely not a failure. I am not trying to say that "it's nothing". What I am pointing out is many Singaporeans get married because "everyone else is doing it" or "I'm not getting younger and oh look, I have a boyfriend whom I think I love" and the next thing you know, "Let's get a BTO". Sounds familiar?
I can also tell you as an experienced life coach who has worked with hundreds of clients, that 85% of couples who still stay married are as good as divorced. You have no idea how many people are holding up a facade everyday. Stop comparing yourself to that.
The thing is, we all had little opportunity to pause and ask ourselves what we truly want and make our own decisions.
You did not fail - you just made a bad choice.
Why what you are doing isn't working
Support groups turn out to be "cesspools of negativity" - just people complaining, not actually supportive
Counselling feels like it's just "circling around exploring emotions" without providing concrete direction or tools to move forward
Self-help resources (books, videos, gratitude practices) are helpful, but only for the moment before heavy feelings set in again.
Suppressing emotions and "being strong" actually makes things worse - leads to depression, poor performance, and potential job loss
What you can expect from working with me
Practical, actionable steps and plans on what in the world you can actually do with your life now
Getting from feeling scattered to a state of calm and focus, so you can make decisions without feeling like a mad woman
How to manage those messy thoughts so that you stop having bad days no matter what happens in your life
Find a way to understand yourself and your life again, now that you are not a “Mrs X”
How to be a positive, happy single parent
Bi-weekly 1:1 coaching sessions on Zoom (3, 6 or 8 sessions)
Unlimited support between sessions: Get real-time guidance and encouragement when you need it most.
Tarot readings (inclusive in some packages) to uncover hidden aspects and clarify options and direction
Meditation and healing for self-sustenance and wellbeing
A customised action plan to rebuild your way forward in life
Exclusive access to enrichment events - receive discounted rates for related workshops on meditation, spiritual wellness, and more.
Authentic, lasting change doesn't happen overnight. It requires building new neural pathways and solidifying new habits. Each of my packages is designed to deliver specific, meaningful results at each stage of your journey. Here’s what you can realistically expect:
In 3 sessions: You will gain immediate tools to manage difficult emotions and thoughts. The fog of shame will begin to lift, and you will find initial, powerful clarity on the core blocks holding you back and the first steps toward your new path.
In 6 sessions: You will build unstoppable momentum. This is where foundational shifts happen. You'll have tangible results to celebrate, feel significantly lighter and more confident, and your new empowering mindset will start to feel natural and authentic. The past will begin to feel like the past.
In 8 sessions: You will achieve deep, lasting integration. This journey is for the fundamental transformation of your relationship with yourself. You will move from healing to wholeness, becoming self-sufficient, radiant, and living a life firmly aligned with your deepest values and purpose. This is where you not only heal but also fully upgrade your life.
Your healing journey is uniquely yours. Some clients find the clarity they need in a shorter container, while others thrive with the extended support for deeper integration. There is no "right" speed, only what feels right for you. Each package is designed to meet you where you are and provide meaningful transformation. I am here to support your chosen path.
95% of my clients found their purpose and feel beautiful again, and I want you to know that you can too.
The cost of staying stuck in grief and uncertainty is far greater than the investment in your freedom and radiance. You have already spent enough time wondering "what if." Let's build a life where you know what is.
Schedule a free, no-obligation Clarity Call with me. We'll explore your challenges, define a vision for your new chapter, and see if we're the right fit to partner on your journey.
There is no pressure, only possibility.