You are an educator, teacher or someone who serves as a role model to young people.
You are going through challenges in your personal life - such as a divorce.
You start to question if you can continue being a good educator - both to your students and your own children.
You lie awake at night, your head pounding and swirling at the thought of your world falling apart.
You know things have gone south and what you should be letting go of, but you are also terrified at the thought of leading your life alone.
"How did it come to this?" "What did I do wrong?" "Am I doing the right thing?" - these questions creep up incessantly the moment you are not paying attention, and you have no answers to them.
"I walk into the classroom everyday preaching good behaviour and making wise decisions. Yet my own life is in a mess. I don't even believe myself anymore."
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What went wrong?
Relationships are complex and we can go on forever trying to pinpoint the 'mistake'. The first thing you need to know is - it is not your fault. However, we can all learn to make better choices, starting from now.
According to the Singapore Department of Statistics, there are over 7000 divorces every year. You are not alone, you are not abnormal and you are definitely not a failure. I am not trying to say that "it's nothing". What I am pointing out is many Singaporeans get married because "everyone else is doing it" or "I'm not getting younger and oh look, I have a boyfriend whom I think I love" and the next thing you know, "Let's get a BTO". Sounds familiar?
I can also tell you as an experienced life coach who has worked with hundreds of clients, that 85% of couples who still stay married are as good as divorced. You have no idea how many people are holding up a facade everyday. Stop comparing yourself to that.
The thing is, being a Singaporean means we had little opportunity to pause and ask ourselves what we truly want and make our own decisions.
You did not fail - you just made a bad choice.
What you need
What you need is to start creating who you are again. Who are you? What kind of life do you want? What rules do you live by? What you need is to start listening to your own voice. This 'break' that is happening in your life is exactly the pause you need.
If you are still reading this by now - congratulations! This means that the little voice in you is beginning to find strength and speak up - do not let that go! This little glow of strength is what we want to nurture and build on, so that you grow into someone who knows what she wants, believes in herself and has the courage to make choices for herself.
A good teacher is not one who does not make mistakes, but one who is able to embrace them, learn from them and make better choices moving forward. A good teacher is not afraid to be human.
Remember this - you are already a good role model. That is why you are still reading this. We are not trying to save the marriage, we are not trying to save your (ex) partner. What we want to work on is how we can build a better, even stronger you.
Life coaching is a partnership, where I work with you to recognise the most brilliant version of yourself. Working with me means:
Finding your strength
Turning your current challenges into a valuable experience that gives you wisdom, rather than leaving it as misfortune
Being able to create a life you truly want
Modelling strength, wisdom, beauty and love to both your children and students
Life coaching provides the structure, support, and strategic questioning to help you:
Silence the shame and rebuild your self-worth on a foundation of compassion, not criticism.
Rediscover the woman you are outside of "ex-wife" and "mom," and define what you want for your next chapter.
Develop a personalised plan to navigate your new world with confidence, calm, and purpose.
Become your own biggest supporter, feeling more radiant and in control than you ever thought possible.
This is the structure we follow:
We uncover your core values, limiting beliefs, and unique strengths.
We get crystal clear on what a fulfilling, purpose-driven life looks like for YOU, beyond the shadow of your past marriage.
We break that vision down into a manageable, step-by-step personalised plan.
We install new, empowering habits and thought patterns, with me as your dedicated partner.
Healing is not linear, but progress is guaranteed with commitment. My 1:1 coaching program is a comprehensive journey designed to uncover your true potential, overcome life’s biggest storms, and create a fulfilling, purpose-driven life.
Bi-Weekly 1:1 Sessions: Deep-dive conversations via Zoom to process, plan, and align your energy with your goals.
Unlimited Support Between Sessions: Get real-time guidance and encouragement when you need it most.
Personalised Tools & Resources: Receive custom visualisations, affirmations, and exercises built specifically for you.
A Customised Action Plan: Your living, breathing roadmap to success, updated as you grow.
Exclusive Access to Enrichment Events: Receive discounted rates for related workshops on meditation, spiritual wellness, and more.
Authentic, lasting change doesn't happen overnight. It requires building new neural pathways and solidifying new habits. Each of my packages is designed to deliver specific, meaningful results at each stage of your journey. Here’s what you can realistically expect:
In 3 sessions: You will gain immediate tools to manage difficult emotions and thoughts. The fog of shame will begin to lift, and you will find initial, powerful clarity on the core blocks holding you back and the first steps toward your new path.
In 6 sessions: You will build unstoppable momentum. This is where foundational shifts happen. You'll have tangible results to celebrate, feel significantly lighter and more confident, and your new empowering mindset will start to feel natural and authentic. The past will begin to feel like the past.
In 8 sessions: You will achieve deep, lasting integration. This journey is for the fundamental transformation of your relationship with yourself. You will move from healing to wholeness, becoming self-sufficient, radiant, and living a life firmly aligned with your deepest values and purpose. This is where you not only heal but also fully upgrade your life.
Your healing journey is uniquely yours. Some clients find the clarity they need in a shorter container, while others thrive with the extended support for deeper integration. There is no "right" speed, only what feels right for you. Each package is designed to meet you where you are and provide meaningful transformation. I am here to support your chosen path.
95% of my clients found their purpose and feel beautiful again, and I want you to know that you can too.
The cost of staying stuck in grief and uncertainty is far greater than the investment in your freedom and radiance. You have already spent enough time wondering "what if." Let's build a life where you know what is.
Schedule a free, no-obligation Clarity Call with me. We'll explore your challenges, define a vision for your new chapter, and see if we're the right fit to partner on your journey.
There is no pressure, only possibility.
